The fact of the matter is, the majority of interracial relationships are rooted in internalized racism, a side of eurocentric beauty standards, and a tall drink of “post-racial” ideology. Period.Read More If it’s not someone of color, move on with that shit brother.
When I was in elementary school my mother would crown my head with loud ass bubbles and then, as if the bubbles weren’t attention enough, she would add “I Love Jesus” barrettes to the ends of my hair. I was that girl. The one everyone could hear from three floors down, walking down the hall […]Read More Di likkle picky picky head gyal: Yup that’s me.
Last night I went out to support my friend’s band play at a lounge type thing in celebration of his birthday. This particular friend is always calling me out for never going to things so of course I had to show up and prove him wrong ! At the same time a close friend from […]Read More “Don’t come back like that”: A story of trauma and disconnect with the female body.
So I use tinder. Not for quick fucks, not for relationships, just for kicks. I used to be that girl that would swipe to find my soulmate, but then after months and months of being asked to please someone with my “DSLs”, I kinda got the hint that this app wasn’t necessarily used to find […]Read More Reclaiming my time: Tinder, GRE, and stupid whites. (long read)
I turned 23 bitches!!!! Another year in the books! So for my bday I went to the city of sin and lost wages… LAS VEGAS! I never do anything big for my bday but this year I thought, why the fuck not ! I was supposed to go with 2 of my friends but it […]Read More Sugar daddies, spice, and some things not so nice. TW: Vegas massacre
Ever since I was young guys have never particularly liked me. The reasoning back then: my parents were too strict and I could never go out/ I was too book smart and didn’t have any street smarts that would appeal to the dudes who had interest in me. Now: I’m just “too much”. So as […]Read More I get it now…
Last weekend I got high for the 2nd time in my life. The first time I smoked was the day of Carnival when I was making the most questionable decisions with a great group of people but this past weekend, I just needed to get high. The day after I wrote my last post everything […]Read More The Talk